Believe It or Not: God is Good and That’s No Lie

Do you enjoy being lied to? And, when you know you have been lied to, do you want to follow that person?

I think we can generally agree that the answers to those questions is: no!

And yet…

We believe lies.

And, too often, we act on them and allow them to shape our view of God, ourselves, and others.

We listen to and believe the lies from the very enemy of our souls.

Take that in.

We believe our ENEMY.  We believe the father of lies, the disrupter of truth, the deceiver, the one who has come to “kill, steal, and destroy,” the evil one, the one who is as a roaring lion seeking to devour and destroy.

And, in so believing that his ways will satisfy our longings, in essence, we don’t believe that God’s will.

Insomuch as we shape our view of ourselves and others by those lies, we fail to see each of us as God does, created in His image.

In so listening to and believing the deceiving whisper of the enemy, by our actions, our thoughts, and our words, we live as if we don’t believe God Himself!

In so responding to the crafty perverter of truth, for all intents and purposes…

We don’t believe our good, good Father, the Author of Truth, the One who Himself is faithful and true, our Rescuer, our Comforter, our Provider, our Redeemer, our Savior, the One who went to the cross, and endured the shame and pain for our redemption, the One who created all things and said, “It is good,” the One who has given “every good and perfect gift.”

We don’t believe God’s promises that are woven through and are the foundation of His commands nor His great love for us behind them; that His precepts are intended to do us good, not harm; give us life, not death. That His covenants with us and those covenants between ourselves and others that He also inhabits are intended to give true joy and true contentment while bringing Him glory.

We don’t believe that actual happiness and contentment come from, as John Piper puts it, “a superior pleasure in God.”

We don’t believe that God can change our minds and hearts to hate the sin that He hates, to love what is “true, noble, right, pure, excellent, and praiseworthy,” and to desire the greater gifts. And we don’t believe that God’s greatest gifts are found in obedience because, only then, are we living as we were created and enjoying His creation – people and things – as they were intended to be enjoyed.

We don’t believe that when we blow it, His grace is sufficient to forgive us while not giving us the latitude to cling to it and continue in it.

We don’t believe that God can change the heart of “certain” sinners just like us; that He can take a weary, wounded soul and breath life into them.  We don’t believe He can move the heart of those who have wounded us or those we love and bring restoration.  Or, if we believe it, do we storm the gates of heaven expectantly and literally without ceasing?

We don’t believe that everything God allows in our lives has to first be sifted through His hands and that, when we walk through the deepest valleys and the most stifling places, He goes before us and even carries us through; that He has a purpose for His children in the midst of suffering, regardless of the intensity or the type.

We don’t believe that He has given us all we need for life and godliness when we say, “I can’t help it; it’s who I am, it’s not big deal – it’s only…” But God says, “His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and goodness.” (2 Peter 1:3)

We don’t believe that He does good to those who take hold of the promise and choose to “do good” out of a growing love for and allegiance to Him.  “Trust in the Lord and do good; dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture.” (Psalm 37:3)

We don’t believe that we will not fully hear His voice if we are harboring, cherishing, hiding, keeping our sin close to us and coddling it as a beloved possession. (Psalm 66:18)

We don’t believe that we are called to obey as a result of our love for Him – in public and in private – and that, in pursuing this goal, we run in freedom. Too often we say we believe that, but our choices don’t reflect it.

Temptation may remain, but what we do with that temptation is evidence of whether or not we believe God when He tells us to “…let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith.” Hebrews 12:1

Instead, too frequently, we choose to believe the enemy’s lies. They “seem” more enticing, they “seem” more satisfying, they “seem” more comfortable, they “seem” more exciting…in the moment. 

But we miss the truth of what “seems right” – it leads to death. (Proverbs 14:12)  It may be a physical death when we choose practices that take a toll on the body, it may be spiritual as we grow cold to all or parts of God’s Word, or it may relational as it affects our relationships with others.

When we put more confidence in the lies of the enemy than in the truth and the promises of God, we settle into temptations and choices rather than battle them. We rely and act on our feelings rather than remember that our “feelings” lie to us and our heart is deceptive.

Like a well-worn blanket, we believe they will comfort and satisfy our restlessness, not realizing how scratchy the blanket of sin, unwise decisions, or heart attitudes that arise and what it is doing to our souls; not recognizing that the temporary balm turns bitter and blinds us to the goodness of God before our eyes.

We miss the treasure hidden in plain sight, the gifts He has given and longs for us to enjoy that are either ignored or embraced as “idols.” So we cling to that scratchy blanket, cover our heads, and miss the grace that equips us to recognize and shutdown the lies and has the power to transform us day by day, more and more into the likeness of His Son.

We try to run shackled, encumbered, weighted down by the sin that so easily entangles and wonder why we are spiritually, relationally, and physically exhausted; why His joy eludes us.

It’s hard to run with perseverance, in freedom and with joy, when we, who are called by His Name, keep our eyes fixed on ourselves and the world that seductively beckons rather than on Jesus and the true goodness of God.

It’s impossible to have a contented rest and delight in our blessings when we continually choose that which is contrary to His character, the parameters He has set for His children, and the guardrails He has put in place to warn us. When we run in our own strength and our own passions rather than in the power of the Holy Spirit and His intentions for us, the chains bind; they cut and they hurt. But we weren’t redeemed to stay in chains!

We hide from God, as Adam and Eve did in the garden, and from those who love us well, hoping we will never be fully known, believing (falsely) that if we were completely known, we would not be loved but that if we maintain a façade, we will be accepted. 

We hide from each other lest someone love us enough to speak truth into our lives and give us that hard grace, desiring for us what God also desires, even as they hold out the healing grace of forgiveness. 

Or we hide because we love our deeds and don’t want to part with them.

All the while, we fail to hear the voice of the Lord, “Woe to those who go to great depths to hide their plans from the Lord, who do their work in darkness and think, ‘Who sees us? Who will know?’” (Isaiah 29:15)

But God says that He is light and “in Him there is no darkness at all. If we claim to have fellowship with Him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live out the truth. But if we walk in the light, as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, His Son, purifies us from all sin.” (I John 1:5b-7)

We choose a “freedom” that is no freedom at all because God’s Spirit does not reside in darkness, in hidden places; He calls us to “have nothing to do with fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them” (Ephesians 5:11), to “confess (our) sins to each other and pray for each other so that (we) may be healed,” (James 5:16), to “put off falsehood and speak truthfully to one another.” (Ephesians 4:25) For where the truth dwells, so the Spirit of the Lord abides as well, “…where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.” (2 Corinthians 3:17)

But God!

He pursues! He calls out! He redeems us and He calls us by name!

He created us to hear His voice instead of the lies and, like the Shepherd with His stubborn, foolishness, forgetful sheep, He reorders our steps so we can and will hear. “My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.” (John 10:27)

He disciplines us because He loves us and intends for us to return to Him, not to keep running the same tired, pain inducing, God defying patterns, but determined and confident that we can run a new race, leaving behind all that has ensnared us and been a hindrance to our relationship with Him and with others.

The enemy heaps on shame that cannot be healed; our “old man” self wants to “feel sorry” when it is evident our ways are “known.” Neither produce peace. But our Redeemer call us to “godly sorrow that leads to repentance and leaves no regret” (2 Corinthians 7:10). As Pastor Tim Armstrong says, He calls us to a change of mind that leads to a change of choices, actions, attitudes, words, and behaviors and gives us the Holy Spirit to make it so.

He enables us to recognize those who love us well and who are determined to walk the hard roads with us and to show us grace when we sin even as they desire His greatest good for us; to allow us to embrace those who love us with a love that “does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” (I Corinthians 13:6-7) But that kind of love is not blind nor ignorant and it will humbly “speak the truth in love,” sometimes even in tears, to redirect us and, as needed, to restore us to our Savior and any with whom we have broken relationships.

It has been said that insanity is “doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.” When we listen to and choose the lies of the enemy over the voice of our Redeemer, the very Lover of our souls, we are the epitome of the Proverbs 26:11 “fool.” “As a dog returns to its vomit, so fools repeat their folly.” And we are fools when we believe the enemy’s lies about any number of things and mistake the fleeting pleasures of sin as delicacies thereby missing the true treasures that God designed and has given to actually delight us.

Would we be willing to cry out in faith, “Lord, I believe. Help my unbelief.” And humbly say, “Show me my where I have believed satan’s lies over Your Truth, O God. Create in me a clean heart. Give me a willing spirit to sustain me.”?

Would we recognize truth behind the lies and say with David, “Surely God is good…it is good to be near my God.” (Psalm 73:1, 28)

Would we be hungry for what actually pleases and fulfills us – God Himself – to then say, “Come, let us return to the LORD. He has torn us to pieces, but He will heal us; He has injured us but He will bind up our wounds.” (Hosea 6:1)

“Walking by faith means defeating sin’s pleasures with the promise of a superior pleasure in God!”    John Piper


28 thoughts on “Believe It or Not: God is Good and That’s No Lie

  1. My father just passed away and it inspired me to reach out to someone special in my life like you who helped make me who I am today. My parents admired you and I thank you for our time together. Hugh

  2. You were very important in my life and I always remember you and Joy and Gordon, Tucky and Neil, Annie and Tod. Please take care. Hugh

  3. My character flaws among many was being self centered and selfish. I put you in a no win situation with our relationship and was afraid of your relationship with the Lord that was manifested via the prom thing – I wanted to be the most important thing in your life and realized that wasn’t going to happen – I still carry the guilt to this day for putting you in that situation.

    • You were so strong in your beliefs which I thought were a passing fad which only got stronger and I went down the wrong path for way too long.

      • This was a conversation that should have happened long ago. I wrote letters that were never sent but would have happened perhaps via the internet. I was wrong. I’m so sorry.

      • We can all look at our character flaws – I had and have got many – and wish they were not, Hugh. But that’s why we all need a Savior and God is still at work in us and through our choices. I am so sorry you have felt that burden because I have not carried a grudge, but thank you for writing to me to clear the air. I hope it will help you to know that. As we grow in our understanding of and our love for Christ, He does set us back on the right path, heals our hurts, and continues to grow us, chipping at those things that need to go and growing other things that need to get stronger. It sounds like He is doing that for you and I hope you are encouraged by that!

  4. I don’t know why I expected any different response. You are so solid in your beliefs and I have always admired that. Truth be known, I still struggle and am on better terms with Mr. Jack Daniels than the Lord. I strive, but being a minister’s son I was told what I had to do at an early age to reflect positively on him rather than learning to grow in Christ on my own. I know I’m preaching to the choir since your father was a minister, but I got so tired of carrying that burden and the expectations at an early age that I chose to turn my back on it. After spending time with my father in his later years he never once said anything to me about becoming an Easter and Christmas Christian. My mother was never one to refrain from giving me grief but she passed away 8 years ago. Thanks so much for being who you are. I’ll refrain from interfering in your life going forward – you’ve already put up with enough of me. I appreciate your words or encouragement.

    • I’m sorry you carry that hurt. For a kid and a teen, expectations can be hard and can make people respond in different ways. As a pastor’s child, some people definitely add on. Your dad and mom were so kind to me and my dad was great, but they were all human, all sinners just like me, just like you. Their job was to point us to Christ because, while we need to expect our kids to obey, it’s not obedience or works that are going to save us. Where they did that well, great. Where they didn’t, that is not a reflection of God. But sometimes we take the actions of others and equate them with God. As a mom, I look back and know I didn’t and still don’t parented perfectly…not even close. But I always ask the Lord to get the glory where I did and cover where I didn’t. And I tell our adult children, where we blew it, it’s a reminder that we need Jesus too and we are not their salvation, nor is our faith theirs – they have to choose that relationship with Christ and grow in it. And I pray all the time that they will grow stronger and deeper than us and lead their own children to the cross.
      Our tough choices don’t have to define us forever. We can say to God, through Jesus… I blew it and I blow it, forgive me Jesus, I want to follow you. As one of our pastors says as he speaks on Psalm 51 – “Forgive me. Change me. Use me.” We may think we have gone too far, but God says otherwise – His grace is there to forgive and change us.
      I want to give reason for the hope I have and it’s not in my dad, my church, or my actions – my hope is in Christ. So if anyone sees anything good in me, I pray it will point them to Jesus because it is Him that has covered my sin, has been working on me and still does. It’s Him who points out what’s not good in me, but not to shame me – to call me to live out what I believe, to what He calls me as a believer. That’s where I can be free to enjoy Him and enjoy all He has given.
      I’m still a work in progress that God is changing day by day, who is asking God to show me my sin and my “junk” and help me hate it and love His truth more day by day. My faith is not in my beliefs, not in my church doctrine – my faith is in what is true: God alone through Christ alone. And THAT has made all the difference in the world. Are there choices I wish I hadn’t made in life? Yes. But I laid them at the cross and still do others.
      And a church that preaches the Bible without compromise, so we can see God, understand, grow, and be encouraged by other believers becomes a gift. I’m thankful for our church for that reason and more. When I went to college, I didn’t return to my home church, to the church my dad planted in the 50s. It no longer preached the Bible as the complete truth and it was well on its way to not to preaching Jesus as the only way of salvation and the power to break sin that has its hold on us. It was sad to leave, but my faith was not in my church; it was in Jesus and I had to move on.
      I hope this encourages you! And I hope that if the enemy of our souls is heaping guilt and telling you there is nothing more, you’ll go to the source – to the Bible – and hear the truth.
      But if I misunderstood what you were saying…sorry for the long response.

      • I truly appreciate your experiences and your impact and insight . Sounds very similar with my children. I appreciate and value your perspective.

      • I appreciate your insight. I was very insecure and knew that given your beauty and personality I had little hope of maintaining a relationship going forward from a long distance. It was all on me and my issues and insecurities. Let’s celebrate our parents and move on. Amen

  5. So of course my “grand exit” should have said “your words of encouragement”. So don’t pay any attention to that person behind the curtain – from the Wizard of Oz.

  6. Some things are better left in the past but I felt I owed you the explanation I never offered. You deserved that and so much more. I wish you only God’s good Grace for the rest of your life. Goodbye.

      • I know. I tried to be as vague as possible so as not to interfere in your life. That’s why I recently reached out to you. Concern that you didn’t get the earlier cryptic apology and the mental stress of losing my dad, my best friend. You won’t be hearing from me any further out of respect for you and your family. Communicating with you has helped me immensely through this trying time and I thank you for your open mind and heart.

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